In this essay, one portion is complete dedicated to parents, and another portion is dedicated to both parents and children.
I am an adult full of ambition. This essay is both for the parent and child who want to open his mind as well as his child's mind and to know how my child became ordinary to genius and is doing great things (you might call it success) in life as very early in his career. So in this essay, I want to share what a childhood I wished for myself to be taught by my parents or teacher or anyone to get great things in life earlier if I learned earlier about wisdom .
For Parents Specifically :
1 to 4 years of age: Try to give open freedom; do not force anything; do not do anything; only deeply observe the child and what he will do on his own, but remember to include the nutrients that not only make his mind and body healthy but also keep them sharper. (Also remember about the environment of home.). Enjoy the process as a parent of the most beautiful thing in the world as you are the creator of a beautiful soul with the body: your children growing up.
4 to 6 years : Then add something to play for your child, like playing a puzzle or whatever he/she naturally attracts towards any toy or visual, but try to show them as much as diverse things or visuals; it's better for maximum things you can show him that he can make a career out of it , do you not think? Remember, first you should open your mind as a parent, be flexible, be Super Curious and be open-minded. Think like a child not your perspective only but as much as great people perspective. (One might wonder how we can adopt the mindset of great thinkers. Discovering this on our own is the true journey of exploration. )
7 to 11 years of age: In this phase, you as a parent mostly wake up, which means you like being charged up every day to know what my children are doing naturally and enjoy it so much that they do not have awareness for eating also and completely forget. Write it down in your note or, like, open a group as a parent on WhatsApp and share his daily activities in writing in that group and concentrate on it and go on. Try to sit with him every day and talk with them about what's going on. Ask what you fear and why you fear it. Find out the reason and try to completely kill them , because it's easy to kill fear in childhood; if it grows, it becomes more and more, and its impact is huge on the children as well as the rest of their lives, you might not imagine. Give them freedom to try as many new things as they can; it is basically coming by his consciousness about the world either by reading different books or by watching relevant social media (which I do not prefer), but it is ok to a certain limitation. Read blogs and articles and try to consume long-type content, not short dopamine content. Alongside that, you can go to school if your school is much more important than your children's lives. Sorry, sorry, sorry. Let's take a pause and breathe. Now I hope you are calm Then listen, I mean, if you can give a nine hundred ninety-nine or better and excellent education that they can use in his lifetime , then why do they need to go to school? You might be thinking How is this possible? Yes, mr and mrs It should be possible if you try to focus on your children's lives rather than on others. Try hard to find and hire an excellent young and energetic tutor who really knows the wisdom of life and lives it and values real-life education rather than the void education school gives us, meaning most of it is non-working in life or not required for someone—a complete waste of time. Then the real study starts; the children have some world awareness , some natural talent, and curiosity to learn something new from a new guru. The teacher's work has now started, and parents also observe the teacher by engaging with the teacher daily and obviously with your children. Then the children should learn about who we are, why we are on this planet and not others, where we came from, and where we will go. How all things are born like nature, the first human being, and the universe, and how it happens exactly as per the first. I did not recommend spirituality for now. Then we provide all the education like English, math, science , history , technology, literature, filmmaking, video editing, writing, and communication—all real-life skills—and also remember to tell them what they are actually studying , why they are studying this, and the most important thing: what its real-life application is, and show them how it is actually applied in virtual mode or physical mode. You can show them like trigonometry in math uses architecture for calculating angles, dimensions, and heights of structures, ensuring stability and aesthetics, particularly in designing roofs, arches, and columns, etc., and in real life shows them how to actually work out these things. Remember in conventional education a significant portion is not worked on in real life, and those who are said to be all are either they did not realize it and did not know themselves completely or they are trying to avoid the face of reality even though they suck in life.
Both for parents and children:
For 12- to 14-year-olds: Try to teach them about life and how it really works. Children can read books and blogs of great and normal people to know the reality of life. If you know it, then it's easy to handle later. Of course, there should be many situations you face in life that are completely new to you and your family; at least you have some mind training before that. I am going to face some uncertain problem; preparation is mandatory for everything. If you prepare yourself, then you might not get hurt by the hurdles, but if not, for sure it will hurt you. Some of the things you need to live are how to know a person closely, how to talk with people , how to avoid talkers and negative people, and how to go away from friends who have limited goals. (A limited goal is far more dangerous than not knowing your goal.) You should try to find your purpose first. The most basic question we should ask ourselves is what should be the meaning of our life instead of what I want from my life. In this process, you also find your natural skills .
15 to 22 years - now you have your purpose , natural talent, open-mindedness, and ambition , and you work on your natural talent, and I should recommend you if your natural talent is tech and you have your aspiration and willpower to make the world a better place , then your chance or luck of doing great things increases. What we can only do is focus on the process and do it anyway. Try to be very good at your natural talent so that you should be in the top 1 % in the world by your skills; of course, it takes time. Got it.Also Remember Find the Smart, Wisdom , Doer peer Group Early In your carrear By creating Useful Things.
In this essay, what I have realized and Lived so far about life I share with you is if it adds some useful value in your life, then I will be happy for you; if you think it does not, then try to read or watch something else you feel valuable.
Lastly, I kindly request you to give me some feedback on what the worst part of the blog is. I know it's my first writing ever.